To help stop your man from making an about-face, here are the top three issues to avoid.

The Past Is Past

And leave it there. Do not turn him off by reliving it like some lost puppy. Men do not want anything to do with other men’s business, so stay out of this. If you think you are doing this to help him know more on how to pursue you and win your heart, stop. Let him find out on his own. By nature men love challenges. You are actually helping him pursue you by letting him at his own pace. When the relationship with your ex ended and you started dating and seeing other men again, you have already put a period in that part of your life. Make the man you are with now the center of your attention. Although do not shower him with useless, senseless attention. Also, always remember that the masculine world is a brotherhood. Do not turn him off by backstabbing a guy you once dated. You are giving the impression that you are a “kiss and tell” kind of girl He might think you will do the same thing to him in the future. Be someone he can trust.

You Can’t Wait To Get Married

Why are you in a rush? Do not turn him off with marriage talk. Yeah, sure you’ve been dreaming about your fantasy wedding since you were a kid, but now is not the right time for sharing. You are trying to let the man you are dating to commit to a long term relationship. If you bring this up even once, most probably he will run away. Do not be all too presuming. All men need at this stage is to have a friend, someone they can trust, and someone they can talk to, someone who, they can comfortably be with. They do not want to think about responsibilities at this point in time. Hold off marriage talk for a while until he slips that ring on your finger.

The Gold Rush

He is not a bank. Do not turn him off with all your financial woes. He will think that you are only after his money. At this stage, men do not want to think of financially supporting you or a family. They want someone to love and care for. Win his heart by letting him take the lead. Asking him to buy you this and that is a big no-no in a budding relationship. You should be able to showcase your independence by sharing the bill in a date, or at least offering to.

These are but simple tips to help you remember the things you need to avoid to get the man you really want for the long haul.

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Don’t talk bad about others.

It can be easy to talk bad about others. You may be talking about former relationships and bad mouthing your ex, or you may be complaining about an incompetent waitress. Either way you want to make sure that you avoid talking bad about others when talking with a new man or in a new relationship.

When you do talk negative about others it makes people uncomfortable. It is also likely that he will wonder when you will be talking bad about him. You want to avoid this as well as the negative feelings that can come from when you talk bad about others.

Money.

You want to make sure that you also avoid talking about money. In addition to avoiding talking about money you also want to make sure that you don’t talk about subjects related to money. This can include, but isn’t limited to shopping, spending money, debt, and income. You want to avoid talking about how much you make, how much you spend, and how much you owe as well as how much he makes, how much he spends, and how much he owes. Don’t turn men off, just avoid money.

Money scares men because they then worry that you might be after them for their money. They also worry that you might spend all their money, give them only small portions of their own paycheck, and do other similar issues that many women do to their men.

Commitment.

It is common for men to be afraid of commitment. What most women don’t realize is that it is also common for those things to include many different topics. You can talk about commitment, future plans and events with a man, marriage, children, and settling down and make it so that a man feels like you are talking about commitment.

Commitment is a difficult topic for many men and when you talk about or hint about any of these topics he may feel like you are moving too fast. He may also feel like he is being pushed.

You want to make sure that you don’t turn men off and that you keep your mouth shut. These topics are often much broader than people think. It is important that you work around these topics and keeps things easy and light.

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