After the first date you do not hear from him again. You thought everything was going great so now you are confused. Was there something you did that he did not like? Was he turned off at one point? Making a man stay for the long haul entails a lot of effort and practice. One thing you will need to work on is to avoid turning him off.
To help stop your man from making an about-face, here are the top three issues to avoid.
Have you decided that you want to convert your best guy friend to your boyfriend? Has it dawned on you that you have fallen in love with a guy you thought was just a friend? Do you want him to see the light and fall in love with you, too? What do you need to do or say to make it happen? There is nothing you can say that will turn him around, but you can convert your best guy friend to your boyfriend if you do the right things.
Believe it or not, you have made a great start by becoming a guy’s friend before he becomes your boyfriend. You don’t have to get over the hurdle of making him fall out of lust and into love. Now all you have to do is light his fire. That may take some doing, since he is likely to already feel comfortable with your relationship as it is.
Does he want a relationship or doesn’t he? Sometimes it’s so hard to tell, isn’t it? Is it just your imagination or is it real? What are the clues to look for? How can you know for sure? Sometimes it is so hard to read male psychology. Men are so good at hiding their feelings, they often hide them even from themselves, so no wonder you’re confused. There are subtle clues to watch for, though. Pick up on these clues and then you will know the answer to your most burning question: “Does he want a relationship with me or doesn’t he?”
Who is the first one to pick up the phone or send a text message? If it’s you, then stop doing it and see what happens. If it’s him, does he do it often? Does he do it for no particular reason? If the answer to these questions is “Yes,” then things are looking good. This means he is thinking about you all the time.